Why do we find certain people attractive? How do looks, biology, and behavior influence attraction? Human attraction is shaped by physical features, hormones, and social cues. It starts in infancy, affects social and professional life, and even plays a role in dating and long-term relationships. These facts reveal the science, psychology, and cultural influence of human attraction.
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The Science Behind Human Attraction
Symmetry Signals Health
Symmetrical faces and bodies are rated as more attractive and healthier across cultures.[4]
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Hourglass Figure and Reproductive Health
Men are attracted to waist-to-hip ratios associated with fertility.[3]
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Fertility Shapes Attraction
Women’s preferences shift across their menstrual cycle: masculine features are more attractive during ovulation, while softer, nurturing-looking features are preferred at other times. Subtle facial changes during peak fertility can also enhance perceived attractiveness.[4]
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Scent Indicates Genetic Compatibility
Subconscious body odors can signal a good genetic match to potential partners.[3]
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Social Perception and Bias
Childhood Halo Effect
Infants prefer attractive faces as early as two months old, and children often assume attractive peers are smarter and friendlier. Caregivers and teachers also give more attention to attractive children, who develop stronger social skills and receive lighter punishment for misbehavior.[3]
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Attractive Children Are Disciplined Less
Attractive children receive lighter punishment for misbehavior compared to less attractive peers.[4]
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Beauty Bias in Society
Attractive People Earn More
Physically attractive people tend to hold higher-paying jobs and leadership positions.[2]
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Attractive Defendants Receive Lighter Sentences
defendants are not only less likely to be convicted, but when they are, they are likely to suffer less severe punishment than an unattractive person convicted of the same offense.[3]
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Media and Politics Favor Attractiveness
Attractive politicians and victims receive more coverage and attention.[3]
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Gender Bias in Masculine Jobs
Highly attractive women may be disadvantaged in jobs that require traditionally masculine traits.[4]
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Attraction and Dating Behavior
Height and Weight Matter
Men slightly under average height and women more than 20 pounds overweight face dating challenges.[3]
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Mate-Choice Copying
Women are more likely to judge a man to be more attractive when they see another woman looking and smiling at him. For a male, the same man becomes less attractive.[4]
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Women rated men more attractive if other women were smiling at him
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Perceived Attractiveness Reduces Safe-Sex Precautions
Regardless of the number of sexual partners a man or woman has been with, the more attractive a presumed new sexual partner is, the less likely a person is to take safe-sex precautions.[4]
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Evolutionary Roots of Attraction
Age Preferences
Men tend to prefer younger women; women often prefer older men with resources.[3]
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Shoulder-to-Waist Ratio
Men with broad shoulders and narrow waists have more sexual partners and higher perceived attractiveness.[4]
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Beards Signal Maturity
Bearded men are seen as more dominant, socially competent, and potentially better providers.[4]
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Love, Bonding, and the Brain
Oxytocin Strengthens Bonds
Kissing releases oxytocin, enhancing emotional attachment.[4]
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Familiarity Increases Attractiveness
Emotional connection can make a partner appear more attractive over time.[5]
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Adrenaline Can Heighten Attraction
Exciting or stressful experiences can intensify perceived attraction.[3]
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Fun Facts about Attraction
Global Beauty Industry
The beauty and cosmetic industry exceeds $160 billion annually.[4]
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Some women prefer “bad boys” as sexual partners
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Short-Term vs. Long-Term Attraction
Research shows a gap between stated preferences and sexual attraction. While many women say they prefer kind, stable partners for long-term relationships, traits linked to dominance, boldness, and risk-taking can increase short-term romantic or sexual appeal.[3]
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Why Isn’t Everyone “Beautiful”?
If humans consistently prefer symmetrical, well-proportioned features, why hasn’t natural selection made everyone perfectly attractive? Researchers note that attractiveness exists on a spectrum, and genetic diversity remains evolutionarily valuable. Traits linked to intelligence, personality, health, and social status also influence mate selection, meaning physical appearance alone does not determine reproductive success.[4]
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Early Exposure Influences Attraction
Research suggests that people may develop preferences for faces resembling those they were frequently exposed to in childhood. For example, individuals raised by slightly older parents sometimes show a stronger preference for older-looking faces later in life.[3]
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Attractive Teachers Often Receive Higher Evaluations
Multiple studies have found that instructors who are perceived as more physically attractive tend to receive higher teaching evaluations from students. Researchers attribute this effect to the “halo effect,” where attractiveness positively influences perceptions of intelligence, competence, and communication skills.[3]
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Children Associate Attractiveness with Positive Traits
Studies suggest that children often assume attractive people are smarter and nicer, and are more likely to choose them as friends. This tendency appears long before adolescence, showing how early appearance-based bias can develop.[4]
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Idealized Media Images Can Reduce Body Satisfaction
Research has consistently found that exposure to idealized body images (such as those commonly seen in advertising, television, and social media) is associated with lower body satisfaction among women. Studies suggest that repeated comparison to unrealistic standards can negatively affect self-perception and mood.[3]
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That's always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they're pretty. It's like picking your breakfeast cereals based on color instead of taste.
- John Green, Paper Towns
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Even Aristotle Noticed the Power of Beauty
The ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle observed that “personal beauty is a greater recommendation than any letter of reference,” suggesting that appearance has long influenced how people evaluate one another.[3]
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Dangerous Beauty Practices of the Past
To become more attractive in the Middle Ages, affluent noblewomen would swallow arsenic or dab bat’s blood on their skin to improve their complexion. As recently as the 18th century, American women washed themselves in the warm urine of a young boy to erase their freckles.[4]
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Darwin on the Cost of Beauty
In The Descent of Man, Charles Darwin observed that people are often willing to endure “wonderfully great suffering” to enhance their appearance. His theory of sexual selection proposed that traits perceived as attractive can persist (even when costly) because they improve mating success.[4]
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Beauty was Valued in Ancient Texts
In ancient Hebrew and Christian writings, physical beauty was often highlighted as a notable trait. For example, the Bible describes Joseph as “handsome in form and appearance” (Genesis 39:6), David as “a mighty man of valor… and a handsome person” (1 Samuel 16:12), and Absalom as the most praised for his good looks (2 Samuel 14:25). These passages illustrate how societies historically associated attractiveness with status, favor, and social recognition.[3]
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Attraction in Prehistory
Even prehistoric humans recognized the social and cultural power of physical attractiveness. The Venus of Willendorf, a 25,000-year-old limestone figurine, depicts a faceless, full-figured woman with carefully rendered hair or headdress. Anthropologists suggest these figurines may reflect ideals of fertility, beauty, and social status in Paleolithic societies.[3]
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Fertility Influences Facial Attractiveness
Research suggests that subtle changes in a woman’s facial appearance across her menstrual cycle can affect perceived attractiveness. Studies indicate that women’s faces may appear slightly more alluring during peak fertility, possibly reflecting evolutionary cues related to reproductive health.[4]
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Fertility Influences Preference for Masculinity
Research shows that women’s attraction to facial features can shift across their menstrual cycle. During ovulation, women tend to prefer masculine features, which may signal genetic fitness. At other times, softer, less masculine features, associated with nurturing and social traits, are more appealing.[3]
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Attraction Follows Universal Patterns
Research suggests that people tend to agree on who is and isn’t attractive, both within and across cultures. These findings indicate that, while personal preferences exist, there are also universal standards of physical attractiveness.[4]
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Attractive People Are Perceived More Positively
Research shows that, while both attractive and less attractive individuals display positive behaviors, people who are considered attractive are more likely to be perceived as having positive traits such as friendliness, intelligence, and competence. This phenomenon is often attributed to the halo effect.[3]
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A male rat prefers a variety sexual partners
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Male Rats Show “Novelty Preference” in Mating
Studies of male rats reveal a phenomenon known as the Coolidge effect: when a male encounters a new female, he exhibits renewed sexual interest, even after losing interest in a previous partner. This cycle can repeat with multiple females, sometimes leading to exhaustion. Researchers believe this effect reflects an evolutionary strategy to maximize reproductive success.[4]
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Attractiveness Matters More Than Personality in Early Dating
A 1966 study of 664 college students at the University of Minnesota found that introversion or extroversion had little impact on dating preferences. Instead, students overwhelmingly prioritized physical attractiveness when choosing dates, highlighting the strong role of appearance in social and romantic selection.[3]
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Height Can Influence Reproductive Success
Studies suggest that taller men tend to have more sexual partners and greater reproductive success than shorter men. Evolutionary researchers propose that height may signal strength, health, and social status, making taller men more attractive to potential mates.[3]
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We’re Drawn to People Who Are Genetically Similar
Behavioral genetics research suggests that up to one-third of the traits influencing friendship and romantic partner selection may be shaped by shared genetics. Some studies also find that partners with certain genetic similarities report stronger long-term compatibility, though successful relationships depend on far more than DNA alone.[4]
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Women who wear red are more attractive to men
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The Color Red Boosts Romantic Appeal Research
shows that women wearing red are often perceived as more attractive and are more likely to be approached or chosen for dates. Men in experimental settings have even indicated they would spend more on a date with a woman dressed in red. Scientists believe the color may subconsciously signal fertility, echoing red displays observed in some primate species.[1]
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Attractiveness Can Shift Relationship Power
Studies on “mate value” indicate that when partners differ significantly in perceived attractiveness, it can influence relationship power dynamics. The partner viewed as having higher mate value may be seen (by themselves or others) as having more bargaining power in the relationship.[4]
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Looks Matter More Than They Used To
Survey data comparing 1939 and 1996 show a sharp rise in the importance of physical attractiveness in mate selection. Men moved appearance from 14th to 8th place, while women raised it from 17th to 13th. Scholars link the shift to the growing dominance of visual media, while noting a simultaneous decline in the emphasis on chastity and refinement.[4]
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Attitudes Toward Chastity Have Shifted Dramatically
In a 1939 survey, men ranked chastity 10th among desirable traits in a spouse. By 1996, it had fallen to 16th. For women, chastity ranked 10th in 1939 but dropped to 17th—near the bottom—by 1996. Researchers attribute this shift in part to the widespread availability of birth control and the cultural changes of the sexual revolution.[4]
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Baby “Cuteness” Peaks Around the First Year
Studies suggest that perceived infant cuteness increases from birth, peaks around 9–11 months, and then gradually declines. Researchers believe this peak may encourage extra caregiver attention as babies become more mobile and accident-prone. Infants rated as especially cute typically have large eyes, small noses and mouths, and proportionally large foreheads.[4]
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Early Imprinting Shapes Attraction
Research suggests that men may be more attracted to women whose facial features resemble those of their mothers. Psychologists call this “sexual imprinting,” a process in which early exposure to caregivers subtly influences adult attraction preferences.[4]